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Who are Mother, Father, Children and Wife? Who is Whose Sibling?

ਹਰਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥

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2017

Who are Mother, Father, Children and Wife? Who is Whose Sibling?

ਹਰਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥

Monday
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5
June
2017
Sabad of the Week
Guru Granth Sahib
Rag Sarang
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Who are Mother, Father, Children and Wife? Who is Whose Sibling?

ਹਰਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥

Monday
,
5
June
2017

Guru Teghbahadur Sahib’s Sabad, composed in Sarang Rag, offers profound wisdom on the transitory nature of the world and the importance of anchoring oneself in the All-Pervasive One.

Guru Teghbahadur Sahib’s Sabad, composed in Sarang Rag, offers profound wisdom on the transitory nature of the world and the importance of anchoring oneself in the All-Pervasive One. Sarang Rag, known for its simplicity and ease of understanding, serves as the perfect vehicle to convey these deeply relatable truths, particularly in the heat of life’s trials.


The Sabad begins with a clear reminder: no one is your ultimate support except the Divine, the One. Relationships we hold dear—our parents, children, spouses, and siblings—are fleeting. Guru Teghbahadur Sahib challenges us to reflect on the nature of these bonds, encouraging a shift away from worldly attachments. These human connections, while meaningful, are not eternal, and depending solely on them can lead to disappointment. In contrast, the Divine presence is constant, the true support transcending the physical world.


Guru Teghbahadur Sahib extends this reflection by addressing the illusion of material wealth. The possessions we accumulate and consider ours, the wealth we cherish—none of it accompanies us when we leave this world. Attachment to material things is an exercise in futility, as they do not bring lasting fulfillment. 


The Guru then calls for compassion toward the meek, a reminder of the Divine’s role as both protector and destroyer. Despite being aware of this, we often fail to incline our hearts toward the One who truly sustains us. Guru Teghbahadur Sahib concludes by likening the world to a night-dream—transient and fleeting. Like a dream, life passes quickly; the only lasting truth is the All-Pervasive One. The reflection calls for humility and devotion, encouraging us to turn inward toward the eternal truth that is always with us.

No one is your support except the All-Pervasive.

Who are mother, father, children, and wife?
Who is whose sibling?  1. Reflect.

Wealth and all possessions that you consider your own.
When the body leaves, nothing goes with it. Why be attached to them?  1.

Compassionate to meek, forever the destroyer,
you haven’t developed an inclination toward that One.
Says Nanak: Entire world is transitory like a night-dream.  2.
     Guru Teghbahadur Sahib in Rag Sarang | Guru Granth Sahib 1231
ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰੰਗ ਮਹਲਾ ੯ ॥

ਹਰਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥
ਕਾਂ ਕੀ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਬਨਿਤਾ ਕੋ ਕਾਹੂ ਕੋ ਭਾਈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

ਧਨੁ ਧਰਨੀ ਅਰੁ ਸੰਪਤਿ ਸਗਰੀ ਜੋ ਮਾਨਿਓ ਅਪਨਾਈ ॥
ਤਨ ਛੂਟੈ ਕਛੁ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਚਾਲੈ ਕਹਾ ਤਾਹਿ ਲਪਟਾਈ ॥੧॥

ਦੀਨ ਦਇਆਲ ਸਦਾ ਦੁਖ ਭੰਜਨ ਤਾ ਸਿਉ ਰੁਚਿ ਨ ਬਢਾਈ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਹਤ ਜਗਤ ਸਭ ਮਿਥਿਆ ਜਿਉ ਸੁਪਨਾ ਰੈਨਾਈ ॥੨॥

About the Series

We are finite; our understanding is finite. Our understanding was different yesterday and may evolve tomorrow as we deepen our relationship with the Sabad. In this trans-creation, we have chosen to keep the repeating words in the Sabad same. We aspire to learn and retain the Divine attribute used in the original Sabad and avoid terms like God or Lord.

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Senior Fellow, Research & Policy

Harinder Singh is the Senior Fellow at the Sikh Research Institute. He holds a BS in Aerospace Engineering from Wichita State University, an MS in Engineering Management from the University of Kansas, and an MPhil from Punjab University in the linguistics of the Guru Granth Sahib. 

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